tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-47257146104462305582024-03-13T12:24:30.767-07:00Evolution Of Be Helpful Not HurtfulBe Helpful Not Hurtfulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05316244081867804158noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4725714610446230558.post-62092023523451179602010-11-27T00:11:00.000-08:002010-11-27T16:32:44.831-08:00055 Evolution Of Be Helpful Not Hurtful<div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>The Evolution Of </b></span></span> </div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>"Be Helpful, Not Hurtful”</b></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="background: #ffffff; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0.14cm; margin-right: 0.14cm;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b><span style="color: black;">Learning the difference between Helpful & Hurtful</span></b></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="background: #ffffff; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0.14cm; margin-right: 0.14cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">When I was teaching in Thailand I found the importance of starting off your first class with the classroom rules and make sure they are posted. One rule I came up with is, “Be</span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Helpful</b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">, Not </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Hurtful</b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">”. Yes, it is a sneaky way to teach my mantra. Too many times a student will do something </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Hurtful</b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">to another student in attempt to gain attention, approval and popularity. To reinforce this behavior, way to often the nearby kids will laugh.</span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="background: #ffffff; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0.14cm; margin-right: 0.14cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="background: #ffffff; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0.14cm; margin-right: 0.14cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">In my class, a student made fun of another student for getting a question wrong, all the students stop what they are doing, they point and all together say “</span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Hurtful</b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">” 3 times. Saying</span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Hurtful </b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">more than 3 times could become </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Hurtful</b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">. 3 times is just enough for the child to lower their head and feel remorse for what they did. I then talk to the child and tell them, “This is what people really think when you hurt other people. Even when people laugh, this is what they really think of hurting someone else. I want you to remember how this feels, ok? (To the whole class) No one makes fun of anyone in my class for trying. Trying is how you learn, making mistakes is how you learn and asking questions is how you learn. Anytime someone makes fun of someone for doing these things, it is </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Hurtful</b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">.” All of this is said in a very caring compassionate way.</span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="background: #ffffff; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0.14cm; margin-right: 0.14cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="background: #ffffff; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0.14cm; margin-right: 0.14cm;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: black;">I then wait until the same child decides to make a </span><span style="color: black;"><b>Helpful </b></span><span style="color: black;">choice. As soon as he did, I make sure the child is rewarded the same way. Everyone stops what they are doing and points and says “</span><span style="color: black;"><b>Helpful</b></span><span style="color: black;">” 3 times. I talk to the child in the same caring kind way. I then say, “Now I want you to remember how you felt before when you were being </span><span style="color: black;"><b>Hurtful </b></span><span style="color: black;">and compare it to how you feel now. Which feels better? Do you think this feels better than if they would have laughed? No matter how good you would feel if they laughed, it does not even come close to how good it feels being </span><span style="color: black;"><b>Helpful</b></span><span style="color: black;">.” For the rest of the year energy that once would have been used to be </span><span style="color: black;"><b>Hurtful</b></span><span style="color: black;">, was focused on being </span><span style="color: black;"><b>Helpful.</b></span><span style="color: black;"> Every time he was </span><span style="color: black;"><b>Helpful</b></span><span style="color: black;">, he beamed even more!</span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="background: #ffffff; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0.14cm; margin-right: 0.14cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="background: #ffffff; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0.14cm; margin-right: 0.14cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">Another example was during lunch. Teachers are eating and Students are playing with all the other classes on the playground. So much chaos it is easy for them to get away with</span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Hurtful </b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">behavior. I heard a thud and then immediately a student crying. I have very good reflexes but before I could even turn around I heard a collective “</span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Hurtful</b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">” being chanted three times. I see the children all encircling one child pointing at him. The child who was </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Hurtful </b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">of course started to point to someone else but before he could finish extending his arm he stopped, he knew he was caught. I heard no more crying from</span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Hurtful </b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">behavior by the cause of any of my students for the rest of the year. I must be honest, I had no idea the kids would use what I said outside of the classroom. I did not expect nor intend for them to continue my classroom rules of being</span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Helpful</b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">, not </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Hurtful </b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">on the playground. Not because I instructed them too but because it was the right thing to do.</span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="background: #ffffff; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0.14cm; margin-right: 0.14cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="background: #ffffff; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0.14cm; margin-right: 0.14cm;"><span style="color: black;">“<span style="font-size: small;">So in anything you do whenever you are in doubt, take a few deep breaths and ask yourself how can I be </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Helpful</b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">. If you are not being</span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Helpful</b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">, you are being</span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Hurtful</b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">. </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Choose to Be Helpful, Not Hurtful</b></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">.”</span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="background: #ffffff; font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 0.14cm; margin-right: 0.14cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Teaching/Counselling/</b><b>Guiding/Listening </b><b>O</b><b>ne-</b><b>O</b><b>n-</b><b>O</b><b>ne</b></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">Over the years I have found myself helping people by listening and guiding them back to their path. Unfortunately I have found that doing this one-on-one usually is a waste of my time and drains me of my energy.</span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Disclaimer/Give Me A Second To Explain Myself</b></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">I am not saying that helping individuals is pointless I am just saying there is nothing I can do about other peoples choices. I can show them the path to all that they seek. I cannot nor will I hold someones hand hoping they choose to walk that path every second, minute, hour, day, week, month, year. I will not be an enabler nor used as an excuse to stray from the path when I am not around. No longer will I let others manipulate my time.</span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Psychic Vampires</b></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">Psychic Vampires to me are people who need help or to talk but never help or listen. They choose to drain you of positive energy never choosing to replenish. If every time you see or talk to someone and you feel drained, pay close attention. Give them the chances to redeem themselves, but if they continue to choose to take without giving ask yourself how important it is to have such a friendship. If you find yourself in bad situations only because you know this person, ask yourself how healthy it is to have this relationship. No matter the problems we have, we must take time to help and give appreciation to those that help us. Giving is one of the best ways to energize your positive energy. It is only when your gifts are not appreciated or even seen as weakness to prey upon is the positive energy not replenished.</div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>The More The Merrier</b></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">I am tired of trying to determine if they are a Psychic Vampire, not making the right choices, not being honest with me or themselves. I have found that when teaching in a group setting, I need not concern myself with these wastes of my energies. I can direct/guide to the paths of excellence. Those that choose to listen stand out fast! Just as soon as they stand out, the others will ask what they are doing different. More and more try and as more time passes this happens more and more until everyone understands the paths to excellence! Never misunderstand my actions as unwillingness to help. If you really want my help, you just need a bigger group.</span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Summer Of 2008</b></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">2008 I had summer off & spent it in my room developing my idea to save the planet & its economy. Since then, I really haven’t got out much I have spent most of my spare time volunteering to this project. I do almost nothing but this. I made this my Gung-Fu. Through hard work over time I have acquired many skills. I found that which was hard & made it easy. </span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I didn’t start out to save the world, I wanted to jump on the Green Electromagnet Gravy Train. With the rise in oil & the devastation of the planet, I saw green technology as the direction for my new career. I could get paid well & help out in so many ways, </span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">win, wins for everyone! </span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I did my research & what seemed like the best bet was a program that after 2 years paid with health care to go to work & school, afterwards I could earn $75,000/year. The problem was finding people capable of higher math & in shape enough to climb the 250ft ladders. Getting paid well to do </span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">math & </span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">chin-ups all day, whoohoo sign me up! I was excited & during the summer I was going to try out the job. I was going to work for a National Temp Agency that trained you to assist the technicians. I would be climbing Wind Turbines & Cell Towers. That is why I am working for the schools, during the summer I can find the perfect job. If I liked it & most importantly felt safe, I would join that 2-year program & if there were any kind of wait list, my name would be placed at the top because I had hands on experience. Well the summer of 2008 was almost here. I was getting a little nervous about trying something so new. At the same time I was thrilled. I did a lot of research. I did so much research I wanted to change the design. I was taking this path to eventually design the wind turbines.</span></span></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><b>2 Bad Omens</b></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">Less than a week before summer, I had two really bad omens.</span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">1. Dateline </span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">did </span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">a</span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">n</span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> </span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">special </span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">on </span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>“</b></span></span></span></span><a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25786803/"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">Tower Dogs</span></b></a><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>” </b></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>the </b></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>most </b></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>dangerous job in America, </b></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>by capita.</b></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> W</span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">ind Turbine & Cell Tower Technicians people died, 5 separate accidents within a week all on the same type of tower. (My opinion, a serious design flaw! Of which I have found the solution, </span></span></span></span></span><a href="http://behelpfulnothurtful.blogspot.com/2010/07/013-human-rights-non-profits-cont.html"><span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Solar Plated Vertical Axis Wind Turbines</span></span></span></span></span></a><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">.)</span></span></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"></div><ol start="2"><li><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Well this inspired a little more research. I cannot tell you how many times I have typed Wind Turbine into YouTube. Every time, the most common phrases searched for would pop up to help with my search. I was searching for anything negative about their safety. The more I saw it the more it looked like my life was in my hands. You wear a hard had & you are hooked up to a tether. I did not see myself falling too far because I could use the tether. I probably wouldn’t hit my head harder than it had been hit in KAJUKENBO </span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">(Martial Arts)</span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">. So my life was in my hands. That was until I typed in Wind Turbine this time. This time right under it was, </span></span></span></span><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nSB1SdVHqQ"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">Wind Turbine Explosion</span></b></span></span></span></a><span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">. In all of my research I had not seen these words appear together. I clicked on it. It was a 30 second clip. 15 seconds into it, </span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">50</span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a; font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">% of the Wind Turbine just vanishes. At that moment, I saw that if high winds came by with little warning, I could do nothing but die.</span></span></span></span></div></li>
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</div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Turning A Negative Into A Positive</b></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">My mortality was no longer in my hands. I need a better paying job but I will not risk my life in that way. I had made up my mind, it is now 2 days until summer & I have absolutely no plans. I did so much research. In my research I had found better alternative designs of the wind turbines. These models had the Nacelle (electronics) at the base on the ground. There was no need to climb. There was no mortality factor. The Wind Turbines that we are using now the Nacelle & Propeller are assembled in Denmark & the Silo is assembled in Korea. The better designs we made right here in America. The weekend came & it was the start of Summer. I went with the Teachers’ Assistants on a year-end party camping trip. I was determined not to let all of that research go to waste! I just had no clue as to how. I remember hanging out with some friends while they were fishing, I started writing & have yet to stop. Anytime I didn’t know what to say, </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>I would close my eyes, breathe in through my nose, out through my mouth & focus on the greater good. How can I help everyone & everything involved </b></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>for generations to come</b></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>? How can I, “Be Helpful, Not Hurtful”?</b></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Once</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> home & I started to put my research together. Not just the Wind Turbines but everything Green I was looking into. </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I couldn't bear for all of that research to go to waste! There had to be some way </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I just kept on compiling more & more. I watched the News & OPB. Daily I watched at least 3 hours of </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">World </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">News. I paid attention </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">not </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">to </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">just </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">what was wrong </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">but also w</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">hat </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">would be the ideal solution</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">.</span></span></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><a href="https://docs.google.com/Doc?docid=0AaMXGA-eo4JqZGdmMmI0NDdfMTNobTk0azdkMg&hl=en"><span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>Project Management Methodology Database (</b></span></span></span></span></a><a href="https://docs.google.com/Doc?docid=0AaMXGA-eo4JqZGdmMmI0NDdfMTNobTk0azdkMg&hl=en"><span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>PMMDb</b></span></span></span></span></a><a href="https://docs.google.com/Doc?docid=0AaMXGA-eo4JqZGdmMmI0NDdfMTNobTk0azdkMg&hl=en"><span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>)</b></span></span></span></span></a></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">I th</span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">ought</span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> back to what I was actually doing at Fred Meyers, in the hierarchy I was 4th under the CEO. I sent out training materials, Scheduled training, & tracked the training of 77,000 employees in well over 300+ Stores all over the United States. For new stores & rollouts of new training to all 300+ Stores. We could do this by </span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">using a </span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">PMMDb</span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">, </span></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>the more you use </b></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>a PMMDb</b></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>, the more </b></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>you perfect </b></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>it</b></span></span></span></span><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><b>.</b></span></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><b><a href="https://docs.google.com/Doc?docid=0AaMXGA-eo4JqZGdmMmI0NDdfNjJjdnE4YnZ0dA&hl=en"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">Task Based Education & Training</span></a></b></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">I was working within Retail Education & Training as a Registrar and Document Fulfillment Manager for 77,000 employees. Day in and day out surrounded by job specific instructional materials for about every position in the stores. I would get calls and visits from people in the stores and offices asking what to do to further their career. The educational material for the stores was clear. If you want this job, take these classes, do these Computer Based Tutorials (CBTs), study these books. I sent the books when requested. There were step-by-step instructions for the CBTs. If anyone had any problems, they would call me and I walked them through it. I told them who could approve them being signed up for the class(es) and what they needed to do beforehand. However, when people from the office would come to me, the story was entirely different. We had the following CBTs for the Office: Typing, Access, Excel, PowerPoint, FrontPage and Word, all with Beginning, Intermediate & Advanced levels. There was some Soft Skills Training and that was about it. I was in charge of a good-sized Corporate Library. Yet, no real job specific Training for the Offices. No clear path to achieve any specific position. It was my job to tell employees what steps to take to get the position they wanted. I had to mentally break the jobs down by tasks to determine what training would pertain to that job. It did not take me long to present my boss with a few ideas. One of them was to develop a job specific training program for all the positions in our offices. <b>My </b><b>idea </b><b>evolved</b><b> into a program in which you could earn a Bachelors Degree at work.</b> I created edited training materials that when taught by people with Masters Degrees, the students could earn a Bachelors Degree all across the Nation. That was only a small portion of my idea, <b>I </b><b>need</b><b> t</b><b>o manifest what I see </b><b>and </b><b>set</b><b> it free. </b><b>Education from infancy in the home building the foundation to explore the depth & breadth of our accumulated shared knowledge.</b> Translated then once they are capable transliterated to every language by native college educated speakers.</span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><b>Nobel Prize Nomination</b></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">I remembered when I was in High School, one of my wants was just to be nominated for a Nobel Peace Prize. I do not have to win, I would just like to be nominated. So then I also meditated on what I could do to deserve it. What could I do that would be worthy of a nomination?</span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><b>Lesson From Buddha</b></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Unintentionally & then intentionally, I took a lesson from Buddha & went to my cave, my room in a basement, & I created my Gung-Fu. Through hard work I have attained many skills in various fields. I have combined my alternative set of skills to develop a Sustainable Utopia as opposed to our current Unsustainable Dystopia. I cannot let myself settle. I know I can do this. I also know if I took a better job, I would do fun things in my spare time. I would waste my money & probably my life just settling. Martial Artists have this ability of being excellent at everything they choose. </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">T</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">he energy within the Martial Art Community alone could get this started. My helping out in Class & the Kids Class </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">helped in preparing me for </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Teach</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">ing</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> & Develop</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">ing Education</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">. </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Martial Arts opened my mind to a whole ne</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">w level of understanding of what I am capable of. I know that if you want to do anything do it! I know I can do anything I put my mind to. I know the strength of my will.</span></span></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Ideal Ideals</b></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">The Planet is in such bad shape in what seems like every way possible. I cannot wait for others to do what is needed. I didn’t really set out to save the Planet & its Economy. It was more a mixture of life led me here & </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">“We The People”, cannot wait for others </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">actions that mostly seem to </span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">misrepresent us</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">. </span></span></span></span>I have grown tired of hearing people complain about what is wrong. After vast resources and a collective will focused on stopping some bad action. Either the solution is no better if not worse or there is no solution, the needed action is stopped without anything to replace it. These are not sustainable actions! We do not have time to wait for nothing to get accomplished. Be a part of the solution, not the problem! <b>Settle for nothing less than ideal ideals and in time these unattainable ideals will evolve into attainable goals.</b> <b>Settle for less than ideal, that is what you get!</b> No one should want for anything needed to survive or thrive! Intentionally leaving out “the other side”, undoing what they have done. Both sides seem to care more about proving the other wrong or placing blame for all of our woes. We have become more about undoing than doing. Lets choose to seek ideal solutions and share this knowledge! Lets choose to be the change that is so desperately needed! Lets end oppression! Lets choose to evolve &...</span></div><div align="CENTER" style="line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Be Helpful, Not Hurtful</b></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 0.53cm; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">Charlie Hancock</span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">Wind Turbine Explosion</span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nSB1SdVHqQ"><span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-size: small;">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nSB1SdVHqQ</span></span></a></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">Dateline, “Tower Dogs”, the most dangerous job </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">in America</span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25786803/"><span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25786803/</span></span></span></span></a></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">Solar Plated Vertical Axis Wind Turbine</span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://behelpfulnothurtful.blogspot.com/2010/07/013-human-rights-non-profits-cont.html">http://behelpfulnothurtful.blogspot.com/2010/07/013-human-rights-non-profits-cont.html</a></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;">Project Management Methodology Database PMMDb</span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="https://docs.google.com/Doc?docid=0AaMXGA-eo4JqZGdmMmI0NDdfMTNobTk0azdkMg&hl=en">https://docs.google.com/Doc?docid=0AaMXGA-eo4JqZGdmMmI0NDdfMTNobTk0azdkMg&hl=en</a></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #2a2a2a;">Task Based Education & Training</span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="https://docs.google.com/Doc?docid=0AaMXGA-eo4JqZGdmMmI0NDdfNjJjdnE4YnZ0dA&hl=en">https://docs.google.com/Doc?docid=0AaMXGA-eo4JqZGdmMmI0NDdfNjJjdnE4YnZ0dA&hl=en</a></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal;"><br />
</div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>Be Helpful Not Hurtful </b></span></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">on </span></span></span><a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/BeHelpfulNotHurtful"><span style="color: blue;"><span style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>YouTube</b></span></span></span></span></a><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>, </b></span></span></span><a href="http://www.facebook.com/BeHelpfulNotHurtful"><span style="color: blue;"><span style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>FaceBook</b></span></span></span></span></a><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>, </b></span></span></span><a href="https://twitter.com/BeHelpfulNotHur"><span style="color: blue;"><span style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>Twitter</b></span></span></span></span></a><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>, </b></span></span></span><a href="http://behelpfulnothurtful.spaces.live.com/"><span style="color: blue;"><span style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>MS Spaces Live</b></span></span></span></span></a><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>, </b></span></span></span><a href="mailto:be_helpful_not_hurtful@hotmail.com"><span style="color: blue;"><span style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>e-mail</b></span></span></span></span></a></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>Copy Write #CV2219 & #PAU 003-357-750</b></span></span></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="font-style: normal; margin-bottom: 0cm; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>055 The Evolution Of Be Helpful Not Hurtful</b></span></span></span></div>Be Helpful Not Hurtfulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05316244081867804158noreply@blogger.com0